Family organization and communication tool

ABSTRACT

A family organization and communication tool is preferably provided via a web site that enables internet access by both parents and their children. The tool provides features for the managing, scheduling and sharing of information among the parents and children of blended families. Specifically, the tool provides for an access schedule calendar to which can be posted specific events requiring the pick up and drop off responsibilities of a parent. Additionally, the tool provides a means for electronically requesting a swap or trade in days of responsibility for a child and the tool provides for an “ask and approve” expense log for the sharing of children&#39;s expenses among parents. The tool further provides for date and time stamping of access by the parents or children to each web page within the tool and for protected entries, entries that can only be edited or deleted by the original creator.

CLAIM TO PRIORITY

The present application claims priority to U.S. Provisional ApplicationNo. 60/551,657, filed Mar. 9, 2004, and entitled, “FAMILY ORGANIZATIONAND COMMUNICATION TOOL.” The identified provisional patent applicationis hereby incorporated by reference.

FIELD OF THE INVENTION

The present invention relates to non-verbal electronic communicationand, more specifically, to non-verbal electronic communications betweennon-cohabitating parents for the managing, scheduling and sharing ofinformation about their children.

BACKGROUND OF THE INVENTION

The concepts of divorced parents and blended families are commonplacetoday. As are hectic schedules for both children and their parents.Trying to coordinate such hectic schedules among blended families isoften quite difficult. Each family has to attempt to make their planswhile respecting the interests of former spouses and the needs of otherblended households. The common result, however, is scheduling mishapsdue to poor communication. The inability to communicate effectivelyamong former spouses further often results in conflicts that create morestress for everyone involved, both parents and children.

In a world awash in communication technology with virtually everyonehaving Internet access, there is a need for a web site that enablescommunicating, scheduling and sharing information with a former spousethat would help remove the stress from all involved lives. The siteshould be designed for separate households and built with features toaccommodate families that live apart. The site should enable managing,scheduling, and sharing information cooperatively and efficiently aboutshared children in a non-verbal manner.

SUMMARY OF THE INVENTION

The needs described above are in large part addressed by the familyorganization and communication tool and method of the present invention.The tool is preferably provided via a web site that enables internetaccess by both parents and their children. The tool provides featuresfor the managing, scheduling and sharing of information among theparents and children of blended families. In a preferred embodiment ofthe invention, the tool provides an access schedule calendar, wherebyparents and children can determine which parent is responsible for achild on a certain day and/or certain event.

An event is presented on the calendar as an event box, wherein the eventbox provides the viewer of the calendar with an indication of not onlythe time and date of the event but for which child the event isoccurring, which parent is responsible for the drop off of the child,which parent is responsible for the child during the event, and whichparent is responsible for picking up the child from the event. In thepreferred embodiment, each of these indications is provided through theuse of color-coded sections of the event box, wherein each child andparent is assigned a unique color for quick ascertainment ofresponsibility.

In another preferred embodiment of the invention, the tool provides forthe ability of a parent to electronically request the trade or swap of aday or days of responsibility for a child with the other parent. Therequesting parent can establish a response date for response from theother parent, which will also act as an expiration if no response isrequired. A negative or non-response to a request maintains the currentcolor-code status of the access schedule while a positive response tothe request results in an automatic color-code update to the accessschedule calendar to indicate who is the newly responsible parent

In still another preferred embodiment of the invention, the tool enablesthe user parents to enter and post incurred expenses for their children.The expense is designated with a type indicating whether the expense isto be split between parents, at a predetermined percentage, or whetherthe expense is to be born by one parent alone. Upon posting a sharedexpense, the posting parent can electronically ask for and trackapproval and payment of the expense by the other parent. The expensetypes are preferably customizable to each users needs and specificsituations.

A feature preferably provided in all embodiments of the presentinvention is that of date and time stamping. Specifically, each accessedweb page of the tool is provided with an indication, e.g., a footer atthe bottom of the page, with the last date and time each user viewed thepage, so that there can be no arguments as to whether an individualactually saw an access schedule, event, or expense log posting. Further,all embodiments of the present invention are preferably provided withprotected entries, i.e., only the user who created an entry can edit ordelete it, and all historical records are locked unless both parentsconsent to making the change.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF THE DRAWINGS

FIG. 1 provides an overview flowchart of the family organization andcommunication tool of the present invention.

FIG. 2 depicts a typical internet system through which the tool of thepresent invention may be accessed.

FIG. 3 depicts an access schedule options page of the present invention.

FIG. 4 depicts a web page of the present invention for creating orediting the access schedule.

FIG. 5 depicts a web page of the present invention for establishing theholiday schedule portion of the access schedule.

FIG. 6 depicts a web page of the present invention for establishing orediting a calendar event.

FIG. 7 depicts the display format of a weekly access schedule calendar.

FIG. 8 depicts the display format of a monthly access schedule calendar.

FIG. 9 depicts an example event box from the access schedule calendar.

FIG. 10 depicts a web page of the present invention requesting a tradeor swap of access schedule days between parents.

FIG. 11 depicts a journal calendar of the present invention.

FIG. 12 depicts a template for journal entry.

FIG. 13 depicts a message board provided by the tool of the presentinvention.

FIG. 14 depicts a “new message” template to create a message to post tothe message board.

FIG. 15 depicts a “new activity” template of the present invention.

FIG. 16 depicts a template for entry of family vital information.

FIG. 17 depicts a “new financial record” template of the presentinvention.

FIG. 18 depicts a template for uploading a user's personal file to thetool of the present invention.

FIG. 19 depicts the expense log summary created by the tool of thepresent invention.

FIG. 20 depicts a template for entry of a “new expense” within theexpense log.

FIG. 21 depicts the expense log setup for defining expense types and howthey are to be split among parents.

FIG. 22 depicts a template for defining a new expense type.

DESCRIPTION OF THE PREFERRED EMBODIMENTS

A family organization and communication tool of the present inventionprovides a unique Internet tool and method for scheduling, organizingand sharing information among blended families. Among its features arean access schedule illustrating each child and the responsible parentfor each day, activity and holiday. Further, is the ability to trade orswap days in parenting responsibility schedules. As well, a user of thetool can utilize its ask and approve expense log to share child expensesbetween the parents.

An overview flowchart of the family organization and communication tool(the tool) 10 of the present invention is provided in FIG. 1. As shown,from the Internet home page 100 of the tool 10, a user can access thefollowing functions: (1) calendar 200; (2) messages 300; (3) informationbank 400; (4) expense log 500; (5) my account; (6) e-coupons 700; (7)resources 800; and (8) logout 900. FIG. 2 depicts a typical Internetsystem 20 through which the tool may be accessed. As well known, theInternet system 20 links computers 22 via Internet service providers 24to the world wide web 26, which is comprised of thousands of web siteswhose operation/software is supported by servers (not shown).

I. Calendar Function

Referring once again to FIG. 1, the function of the calendar 200 can nowbe appreciated. A significant feature of the calendar function 200 isthe function of the access schedule 210 (a schedule indicating whichparent has the responsibility for a child), wherein a user may create anew access schedule 212, edit an existing access schedule 214, and/ordefine a holiday schedule 216. FIG. 3 depicts the page of the tool 10that offers the access schedule options. FIG. 4 depicts the page of thetool 10 that enables the creation, or editing of an existing accessschedule. As shown, a user is prompted to enter a start date 218 and anend date 220, typically a span of six months to a year, and is thenprompted to enter the parent responsible for access/custody of the childon each day of the week. In the preferred embodiment this entry issimplified by offering color-coded boxes for each parent, i.e., themother 222 and the father 224, with the option of selecting orde-selecting color-coded boxes. Those same color-coded boxes, 222 and224, are additionally preferably provided in determining the holidayaccess schedule, which is enabled by the page of the tool shown in FIG.5.

The holiday access schedule 216 web page depicted in FIG. 5, enables theuser to select a year 226 in which to define their holidays. The pagealso enables the user to select which common holidays 228 are of concernthrough use of a check box 230 and to designate which parent will haveaccess/responsibility for the child on that holiday. In this example,the mother has access/responsibility on New Year's, Valentine's, St.Patrick's and Mother's Day, per selected color-coded boxes 222, whilethe father has access/responsibility for the child on Memorial andFather's Day. The remainder of the holidays are defined as default,i.e., the access/responsibility for the child remains with the defaultparent. Additional holidays not provided within the common holiday listmay be established and added by entering the holiday through the customholiday option 234. A description 236, the number of days of the holiday238 and the start date 240 of the holiday can be entered. Once added,the parent having access/responsibility for the child can be selected.

A further feature of the calendar 200 is the ability to establish singleand/or recurring events 242 for each child. FIG. 6 depicts a page of thetool 10 that can be used to establish or edit a new event 242. As shown,the new calendar event page enables the entry of a description 243 ofthe event, as well as additional comments 244 and location information245 on the event. The user can additionally define the timing of theevent by noting a multiple day event per selection 246, entering thedate of the event 247, noting an all day event per selection 248, aswell as entering a start time 249 and an end time 250. The user canadditionally define the event as a repeating event by selecting thedefine repeat pattern option 251 and selecting the repeat pattern, e.g.,daily, weekly, monthly, etc., and at which time the repeat should end.The new calendar event is further defined by user information whichincludes the selection of which parent is responsible for the childduring the event 252, which parent is to drop off the child 253, whichparent is to pick up the child 254, and which child the event is for(see check box 255). The user can select whether to send an e-mailreminder about the event to the child and/or parent per selection box256 and can select at which time before the event the reminder should besent per selection box 257. At the user's option, they can furtherdefine the new calendar event by selecting an icon that represents theevent, per selection box 258, and can enter any additional notes 259.

With the access schedule and various calendar events defined, the usercan view the calendar in a weekly, monthly, or yearly format, an exampleof the monthly format is provided in FIG. 8. The calendar 260 ispreferably color-coded wherein the background 261 color-fill for eachday represents the access schedule, i.e., which parent hasaccess/responsibility for the child or children on that day. Note that alegend is provided at the bottom of the calendar indicating which colorscorrespond to each parent and each child. Additionally, the calendar ismarked with various calendar events. Each calendar event is indicated byan event box 262 provided on the day the event is to occur. A user mayclick on the event box 262 to obtain additional details about the event.A close-up view of an example event box 262 is provided in FIG. 9.

Each event box 262 is outlined, to the left, right and bottom, withbars. The bar to the left in the event box 262 is the “drop-off” bar263, a bar that is color-coded to indicate which parent will be droppingoff the child at the noted event. The bar to the right in the event box262 is the “pick-up” bar 264, a bar that is color-coded to indicatewhich parent is responsible for picking up the child from the event. Thebar to the bottom in the event box 262 the “child indicator” bar 265, abar that is color-coded to indicate which child is participating in theevent. The background 266 of the event box 262 is color-coded toindicate which parent is responsible for the child during the event.And, a data field 267 is provided within the event box 262 to provide adescription of the event, with words and/or an icon, as well as thestart and stop time of the event. It should be noted that while the useof color-coding and the use of bars are the preferred method ofindicating the parents and children involved with the calendar, othermethods of indicating the children/parents can be used without departingfrom the spirit or scope of the invention.

An additional function of the calendar function 200, is the trade/swapfunction 268, which is enabled through the web page of the tool 10 thatis depicted in FIG. 10. This function enables a parent to request totrade a day, forfeit a day, or acquire a day. To switch days with theother parent, the user selects which parent they wish to haveresponsibility for the child per selection box 269. The user thenselects the date for date range that you would like to switch byentering the date in the date box 270 and selecting “single” or“multiple” days, per selection box 271. The user may indicate the desireto trade for another day or not to trade, per selection box 272.Optionally, the user may also set a “respond by date” 273 and/or“reason” 274 to let the other parent know why the user is making therequest. Upon submitting the change request, the other parent will seethe change request upon the calendar, indicated by a question mark “?”over the event box 262, (see FIG. 8). The other parent will also receivea message through the message function of the tool 10, whereby the otherparent can accept or reject the request. The message function isdescribed further below. A log of the request and the response ispreferably kept. Upon the acceptance of a request, the calendar ispreferably updated by color-coding to indicate the other parent's newresponsibility. A conflict in scheduled events is preferably indicatedby an exclamation point “!” positioned over the event box.

Additional functions of the calendar function 200 of the tool 10 includethe ability to journal 275 relative to the calendar. FIG. 11 depicts ajournal calendar 276 that is distinct from the access schedule/eventcalendar described previously. The journal calendar 276 maintains onlyjournal entries and indicates the presence of such a journal entrythrough a notation 277 on the calendar. The journal calendar 276 ispreferably color-coded indicating who wrote the entry and who has accessto the entry. Upon selecting a new journal entry 278, the user ispresented with a journal entry page like that depicted in FIG. 12.Within the entry 278, the user is prompted to enter or select a date 279for the entry and to create the desired entry 280. The user may alsoselect to whom the entry will be visible to, per selection box 281 andwhether the entry is to be made public, per selection box 282.

Further functions of the calendar function 200 of the tool 10 includeaccessory functions 283 such as display, print, and export. Bothcalendar 260 and the journal calendar 275 preferably provide the usernot only with the ability to view a weekly, monthly, and yearly calendarformat but also provide the ability to click on any entry within thecalendar 260, 275 to have the details of the entry displayed on aseparate page. Further, both the calendar 260 and the journal calendar275 are provided with the option of selecting a “printable” option tocreate a printer-friendly format of the calendar. See FIG. 8,“printable” option 283 and FIG. 11, “printable” option 284,respectively. The calendar 260 is preferably provided with theadditional option of exporting the events of the calendar 260 to Outlookor another compatible calendar, see FIG. 8 “export” option 285.

II. Message Function

The message function 300 presents the user with a message board 302 towhich all messages sent to the user via the tool 10 are posted, see FIG.13. The message board lists the messages providing indication of whomthe message is from 304, the date the message was sent 306, the subjectof the message 308, and the status type of the message 310. The statusof the message is preferably indicated as “read” or “unread” while thetype of the message is noted as one or more of the following: (1)message; (2) change request; (3) professional message; (4) systemmessage; and (5) expense log message. The status and types of themessages are preferably listed in a legend 312 on the message board 302for easy identification. Messages sent by the user are also preferablydisplayable on the message board 302, per function 314.

To create a new message 316, the user is preferably presented with amessage template, such as that shown in FIG. 14, where the user isprompted to select from desired recipients 318, i.e., children or otherparent, prompted to enter a message title 320 and the content 322 of themessage. Upon completion of the message the user simply selects “send”324 to deliver the message to the desired recipients. Similar to astandard e-mail system, the recipient of the message may respond 326 tothe message if desired. All users are provided with the ability todelete messages 328.

III. Information Bank Function

The information bank function 400 of the tool 10 enables the parentusers to store information about each member of the family. Theinformation is already organized by the tool 10 into the followingsections: (1) Activities 402; (2) Address Book 404; (3) Child CareProviders 406; (4) Family Vitals 408; (5) Financial Information 410; (6)School Information 412; (7) Religious Information 414; (8) My Files 416;and (9) Medical Information 418, see FIG. 1. Each section is providedwith its own template or templates for entering the information.

For example, the activity 402 section of the information bank 400enables the user to enter detailed information about an activity via the“new activity” template 420 presented in FIG. 15. A similarly configuredtemplate is provided for a “new address” and a “new child careprovider.”

FIG. 16 is an example of the template 422 that is preferably used toenter/edit “family vitals” while FIG. 17 provides an example of thetemplate 424 that is preferably used to enter a “financial record.”Similar templates are provided for a “new school,” “new religiousinformation,” as well as medical information such as medical providers,insurance information, immunizations, emergency contacts, and healthdetails. The user of the tool 10 is also provided with the option ofuploading their own files for easy access and use within the tool 10,see FIG. 18 for an upload template 426.

IV. Expense Log Function

The expense log function 500 of the tool 10 allows the parent to enterexpenses for their children, categorize the expense by type, and trackthe other parent's approval and payment. The expense types arecustomizable to facilitate each individual's needs. Upon entering theexpense log function 500, the user is presented with an expense logsummary 502 page, as shown in FIG. 19. All expense entries made by eachparent are displayed, except those designated private. Specifically, thesummary 502 includes the date 504 of the expense, a description of theexpense 506, the type of expense 508, the amount of the expense 510, anindication of which child the expense is for 512, an indication of whichparent posted the expense 514, the status of the expense 516, andwhether the expense has been paid 520. A color-coded legend 522 ispreferably provided at the bottom of the summary 502 to indicate thecolor block associate with each child and parent. A status legend 524 isalso preferably provided at the bottom of the summary to indicate thevarious status' of expenses, including: (1) approved, indicating theexpense has been approved by the other parent; (2) private, indicatingthe expense is not to be shown to the other parent; (3) refused,indicating the other parent refused to pay their portion of the expense;and (4) waiting, indicating the user is still waiting for a responsefrom the other parent as to whether the expense is approved or not. Inthe preferred embodiment, the user is also provided with the option ofselecting a specific expense from the summary to obtain a detailed viewof the expense.

A user may create a new expense by selecting the “create expense” option526 from the summary 502, upon which the user is presented with the “newexpense” template 528 of FIG. 20. Through the template 528, the user mayenter the date of the expense 530, the expense title 532, the type ofexpense 534, the amount of the expense 536, and which child the expenseis for 538. The user may additionally upload a copy of the receipt ifdesired through use of the browse function 540. The user can indicate ifthe new expense is to be kept private or not, per selection 542. Uponcreating the expense, it is posted to the expense log summary 502.

The expense log function 500 of the tool 10 enables the user to createdifferent types of expenses. For example, see the setup page 543 of FIG.21, wherein the expense types 544 of general, medical/dental, other, andpersonal have already been established. The description 546 of theexpense type indicates how the expense is to be split while the actualpercentages to be paid by each parent are listed under the parent'snames 548. A new expense type is established through the template 560 ofFIG. 22, wherein the user enters the type title 562, the description 564and the percentage 566 that the user will pay. Through this expense typesetup the user is able to customize the tool 10 to their specific needs.

V. My Account Function

The “my account” function 600 of the tool 10 provides the means tomaintain the user's personal information including home and businessaddresses, phone numbers, e-mail addresses, etc. It further enables thestorage of the user's site preferences, such as the colors desired torepresent each child and parent, as well as enable the user to establishand save their own “quick list,” a list of the most frequently usedpages within the tool for quick and easy access to those pages. The “myaccount” function 600 also enables the user to add, edit, and deletechild accounts and/or “view only” accounts.

VI. E-Coupon Function

The e-coupon function 700 of the tool 10 allows member users to have thebenefit of access to e-coupons that the tool provider has worked tosecure for their members. E-coupons are provided in such areas as books,communication, home improvement, photograph, travel, clothing, health,pets, and recreation among others. Members can simply select the couponthey desire and print it for their use.

VII. Resources Function

The resources function 800 of the tool 10 provides links to web sitesand services for member users that are focused on families and children.It becomes very difficult to determine which sites are appropriate forthe members of a user's family. The resource section supplies familieswith children, family oriented sites that the tool provider believeswill educate, guide, and entertain the user members and their families.The links to resources are provided in such areas as family resources,internet safety tips, consumer safety tips, tools for families, links tofiltering software, and reporting trouble online, among others.

VIII. Log Out Function

The log out function 900 of the tool enables the user to end theirsession with the tool 10. After logging out, all data about the currenttool session is removed from the user's computer and from the toolprovider's temporary database.

An additional feature that applies to all functions noted above is thatof a date and time stamp. Every page within the tool 10 web site ismarked in the footer with the last time each person viewed the page.Individual entries are all recorded with who performed the entry and atwhat time the entry was performed. See, for example, item 902 in FIGS. 3and 4. Another feature that applies to all function is that of protectedentries. Only the user who created an entry within the tool 10 is ableto edit or delete it, and all historical records are locked unless bothparents consent to making the change.

The present invention may be embodied in other specific forms withoutdeparting from the spirit of the essential attributes thereof;therefore, the illustrated embodiments should be considered in allrespects as illustrative and not restrictive, reference being made tothe appended claims rather than to the foregoing description to indicatethe scope of the invention.

What is claimed is:
 1. A computer based access schedule system formanaging, scheduling, and sharing of information related to day-basedobligatory commitments of a plurality of parents of a blended familyregarding at least one child of said blended family for which saidplurality of parents are responsible, comprising: a first computingdevice including at least one processor; instructions executable on saidat least one processor adapted to cause said first computing device to:define a set of at least two parents for each of said at least one childof said blended family, who each have day-based obligatory commitmentsregarding said at least one child, and wherein there is at least oneparent of said set of parents assigned to at least one day-basedobligatory commitment for each of said at least one child for each dayof the week for an indicated time period; accept from at least oneauthorized user, including users other than said set of parents,information relating to day-based obligatory commitments of said set ofparents; store information relating to said day-based obligatorycommitments of said set of parents, including at least date informationfor each of said day-based obligatory commitments; generating a web pageviewable by a user through a display coupled to a second computingdevice communicatively coupled to said first computing device over anetwork, the web page including a visual representation of an accessschedule, wherein said access schedule is based on said informationstored relating to said day-based obligatory commitments and includes atleast one indication of which parent of said set of parents has aday-based obligatory commitment regarding said at least one child ofsaid blended family for each day of the week for said indicated timeperiod, wherein said instructions executable on said at least oneprocessor are adapted to cause said first computing device to provide atleast one user un-modifiable indication of a last time each parent ofsaid set of parents accessed said access schedule by providing the webpage to the second computing device, wherein the user un-modifiableindication is accessible via the first computing device; and wherein thewebpage is viewable by an authorized third party other than the set ofparents generating and providing to a first parent a request formpresenting at least one second parent of said set of parents andenabling said first parent to electronically request, by submission ofsaid form, from said second parent a proposed swap of one or moreday-based obligatory commitments initially assigned to said first parentin exchange for one or more day-based obligatory commitments initiallyassigned to said second parent, said request form comprising: a parentselection field arranged such that said first parent is provided anability to electronically select at least one parent of said set ofparents to request said proposed swap from; a date designation fieldarranged such that said first parent is provided an ability toelectronically select one or more proposed dates of said one or moreday-based obligatory commitments assigned to said first parent for whichsaid proposed swap of the day-based obligatory commitment assigned tosaid second parent is desired; a trade indication field providing saidfirst parent an ability to indicate an offer to trade for one or moreday-based obligatory commitments initially assigned to said firstparent; a respond by field arranged such that said first parent isprovided an ability to electronically input a date so as to indicate atime period for which said request for said proposed swap is valid;process information input through said request form to determine whetherany scheduling conflicts based on said information stored relating tosaid day-based obligatory commitments have been or will be caused bysaid proposed swap, wherein if a scheduling conflict exists, provide anindication of said conflict, and wherein if a scheduling conflict doesnot exist, process said information input through said request form inorder to provide an indication on said access schedule of the request,wherein said indication is provided as a selectable icon associated withone or more dates on said access schedule such that user selection ofsaid selectable icon provides a user with details of said proposed swap;upon receiving an indication of said first parent selection of saidselectable icon, further provide said first parent with an ability viasaid access schedule to electronically submit or withdraw said proposedswap; upon receiving said user selection to submit said proposed swap,provide to other users through a display coupled to a third computingdevice communicatively coupled to said first computing device over anetwork a web page that includes a visual representation of said accessschedule updated to include said proposed swap; monitor said proposedswap via said updated access schedule so as to allow said second parentto accept or reject said proposed swap only during said time period forwhich said request for said proposed swap is valid; provide a statusindication to said first parent indicating whether or not said secondparent has viewed said proposed swap; and upon receiving an indicationof said second parent to accept said proposed swap, automatically updatesaid access schedule and publish said access schedule through a displaycoupled to a computing device communicatively coupled to said firstcomputing device over a network a web page that includes a visualrepresentation of said access schedule updated to reflect on said accessschedule that said first parent is responsible for said one or morecommitments initially assigned to said other, second parent as indicatedin said proposed swap and said second parent is responsible for said oneor more commitments initially assigned to said first parent as indicatedin said proposed swap.
 2. The system of claim 1, wherein saidinstructions executable on said at least one processor adapted to causesaid first computing device to accept from a user information relatingto day-based obligatory commitments of said set of parents includesinformation relating to day-based obligatory commitments of geneticparents, legal parents, spouses of parents, grandparents, siblings, orother members of a blended family who are responsible for said one ormore children.
 3. The system of claim 1, wherein said at least oneindication of a day-based obligatory commitment of said at least oneparent of said set of parents includes at least one color codeindicating which parent of said set of parents has said day-basedobligatory commitment.
 4. The system of claim 3, wherein saidinstructions executable on said at least one processor adapted to causesaid first computing device further include instructions to, uponreceiving said indication of said second parent to accept said proposedswap, automatically update said access schedule to update said colorcode for said day-based obligatory commitment to reflect a swap ofresponsibilities between said first parent and said second parent; andupon receiving said indication of said second parent to reject saidproposed swap, automatically maintain an existing color code for saidday-based obligatory commitment.
 5. The system of claim 1, wherein saidat least one indication of a day-based obligatory commitment of at leastone parent of said set of parents includes at least one color codeindicating one or more children among a plurality of children of saidblended family for who said parent has said day-based obligatorycommitment.
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A computer based method of managing, scheduling, andsharing information among parents and children of blended families,comprising: at a computer server system coupled to a network, defining aset of at least two parents for each of said at least one child of saidblended family, who are permitted to have commitments regarding said atleast one child, and wherein there is at least one parent of said set ofparents assigned to at least one commitment for each of said at leastone child for each day of the week for an indicated time period;accepting from at least one authorized user, including authorized usersother than said set of parents via a first computing device including atleast one processor communicatively coupled to said server system oversaid network, information relating to commitments of said set ofparents; storing, at a computer readable medium coupled to said serversystem, information relating to said commitments of said set of parents,including at least date information for each of said commitments;generating and providing, to a user through a display coupled to asecond computing device communicatively coupled to said server systemover said network a web page, said web page including a visualrepresentation of an access schedule, wherein said access schedule isbased on said information stored relating to said commitments, saidaccess schedule including at least one indication of which parent ofsaid set of parents has a commitment regarding at least one child ofsaid blended family for each day of the week for said indicated timeperiod; generating and providing, to a user, including authorized usersother than said set of parents, through the display, at least one userun-modifiable indication of a last time each parent of said set ofparents accessed said access schedule by providing on the web page anindication of the last date and time each user viewed the web page;generating and providing to a first parent through a display coupled toa computing device communicatively coupled to said server system oversaid network a request form presenting at least one second parent ofsaid set of parents and enabling said first parent to electronicallyrequest from said second parent a proposed swap of one or morecommitments initially assigned to said first parent for one or morecommitments initially assigned to said other, second parent, saidproviding said request form including: generating and providing a parentselection field arranged such that said first parent is provided anability to electronically select at least one of said second parent ofsaid set of parents to request said proposed swap from; generating andproviding a date designation field arranged such that said first user isprovided an ability to electronically select one or more proposed datesof said one or more commitments of said first parent on which saidproposed swap of the day-based obligatory commitment assigned to saidsecond parent is desired; generating and providing a trade indicationfield providing said first parent an ability to indicate an offer totrade for one or more day-based obligatory commitments initiallyassigned to said first parent; generating and providing a respond byfield arranged such that said first parent is provided an ability toelectronically input a date so as to indicate a time period for whichsaid request for said proposed swap is valid; causing information inputthrough said request form to be processed so as to determine whether anyscheduling conflicts based on said information stored relating to saidcommitments have been or will be caused by said proposed swap bycomparing said information input through said request form toinformation stored relating to said commitment; if a scheduling conflictexists, providing to said first parent through a display coupled to acomputing device communicatively coupled to said server system over saidnetwork an indication of said conflict; if a scheduling conflict doesnot exist, causing said information input through said request form tobe processed in order to provide to a user through a display coupled toa computing device communicatively coupled to said server system oversaid network an indication on said access schedule of said request,wherein said indication is provided as a selectable icon associated withone or more dates on said access schedule such that user selection ofsaid selectable icon provides a user with details of said proposed swap;upon receiving said first parent selection to submit said proposed swap,providing to other users through a second display coupled to a computingdevice communicatively coupled to said server system over said network aweb page that includes a visual representation of said access scheduleupdated to include said proposed swap; monitoring said proposed swapusing said server system via said updated access schedule and allowingsaid second parent to accept or reject said proposed swap only duringsaid time period for which said request for said proposed swap is valid;providing a status indication to said first parent indicating whether ornot said second parent has viewed said proposed swap; and upon receivingan indication of said second parent to accept said proposed swap,causing said server system to automatically update said access scheduleand publishing said access schedule through a display coupled to acomputing device communicatively coupled to a computing device over saidnetwork a web page that includes a visual representation of said accessschedule and reflecting on said access schedule that said first parentis responsible for said one or more commitments initially assigned tosaid other, second parent as indicated in said proposed swap and saidsecond parent is responsible for said one or more commitments initiallyassigned to said first parent as indicated in said proposed swap.
 7. Themethod of claim 6, wherein said providing, to a user through a displaycoupled to a computing device communicatively coupled to said serversystem over said network a web page, said web page including a visualrepresentation of an access schedule, wherein said access schedule isbased on said information stored relating to said commitments, saidaccess schedule including at least one indication of a commitment of atleast one parent of said set of parents regarding an event involving atleast one child of said blended family includes indicating: a start timefor an event; an end time for an event; one or more dates for an event;what child among a plurality of children of said blended family saidevent is related to; what parent of said set of parents is committed todrop off said one or more children of said blended family at an event;what parent of said set of parents is committed to remain with said oneor more children of said blended family for a duration of an event; whatparent of said set of parents is committed to pick up said one or morechildren of said blended family from an event.
 8. The system of claim 6,wherein said providing, to a user through a display coupled to acomputing device communicatively coupled to said server system over saidnetwork a web page, said web page including a visual representation ofan access schedule, wherein said access schedule is based on saidinformation stored relating to said commitments, said access scheduleincluding at least one indication of a commitment of at least one parentof said set of parents regarding an event involving at least one childof said blended family includes providing at least one color codeindicating which parent of said set of parents has said commitment. 9.The method of claim 8, wherein automatically updating said accessschedule and publishing said access schedule through a display coupledto a computing device communicatively coupled to said server system oversaid network a web page that includes a visual representation of saidaccess schedule and reflecting on said access schedule that said firstparent is responsible for said one or more commitments initiallyassigned to said other, second parent as indicated in said proposed swapand said second parent is responsible for said one or more commitmentsinitially assigned to said first parent in said proposed swap includesautomatically updating said access schedule to update said color code toreflect on said access schedule that said first parent is responsiblefor said one or more commitments initially assigned to said other,second parent as indicated in said proposed swap and said second parentis responsible for said one or more commitments initially assigned tosaid first parent as indicated in said proposed swap.
 10. The method ofclaim 6, wherein said providing, to a user through a display coupled toa second computing device communicatively coupled to said server systemover said network a web page, said web page including a visualrepresentation of an access schedule, wherein said access schedule isbased on said information stored relating to said commitments, saidaccess schedule including at least one indication of a commitment of atleast one parent of said set of parents regarding an event involving atleast one child of said blended family includes providing at least onecolor code indicating which child among a plurality of children isassociated with said event.
 11. The method of claim 6, wherein said atleast one commitment is a day-based obligatory commitment.
 12. Acomputer implemented method comprising: storing a schedule on a computerreadable storage device for a child defining periods the child isscheduled to spend with each of two parents; providing access to theschedule to each parent via networked computing devices; providing aswap form to facilitate selection of two different proposed periods toswap between the parents by one parent; providing the selected proposedperiods to swap by one parent to the other parent as a schedule swap;allowing the other parent to accept the schedule swap; and changing thestored schedule of the child to reflect the swap of periods whenaccepted by the other parent, wherein access to the schedule and theswap form are presented to the parents and an authorized third partyuser as web pages with time stamps representative of the last time theweb pages were viewed by each parent, wherein the computer tracks whenthe web pages was provided to the other parent, and wherein the webpages provide at least one user un-modifiable indication of a last timeeach parent of said set of parents accessed said access schedule. 13.The computer implemented method of claim 12 wherein periods on theschedule are color coded with a parent unique color to associate periodswith parents.